It’s Not About the Sex
It’s Not About The Sex is a podcast based on the book by the same name. Psychotherapist Andrew Susskind examines issues such as shame, grief, narcissism, and codependency to demonstrate how people use out-of-control sexual behavior to cope with broken heartedness. Each podcast he interviews other therapists who work with clients dealing with addictive behaviors around troubled relationships.
Episodes
Friday Mar 12, 2021
Working with Hurt - Susskind and Merlino
Friday Mar 12, 2021
Friday Mar 12, 2021
In this podcast, we offer an alternative approach to processing hurt. Traditionally, therapists focus on healing the hurt by talking it out with the transgressor (e.g. parent, significant other, co-worker). Instead, today’s podcast encourages you to take full responsibility for all of your feelings and reactions without blaming or finger-pointing. Because cumulative hurt can create vulnerability to relapse, this method supports long-term recovery and takes you out of the quicksand of falling into victim mode.
Friday Feb 19, 2021
Trauma and Addiction Recovery - Tom Pecca, MA, LMHC, CSAT, CTT
Friday Feb 19, 2021
Friday Feb 19, 2021
Today we welcome Tom Pecca, MA, LMHC, CSAT, CTT who is a Senior Clinical Advisor for the Guest House-Ocala located in Central Florida. As a trauma and addictions specialist and educator, Tom discusses how both aspects of healing need to be fully addressed in order to promote long-term sustainable recovery. We also take a look at sexual recovery and attachment patterns as part of the deeper healing from compulsive sexual behaviors.
Friday Feb 05, 2021
The Resilience of Recovery - Susskind and Merlino
Friday Feb 05, 2021
Friday Feb 05, 2021
In this podcast we explore resilience which is sometimes defined as the capacity to recovery quickly from difficulties. So how do you build resilience? Listen to our revealing conversation and begin to consider ways to fortify your nervous system, alleviate shame and sustain longer-term recovery.
Friday Jan 22, 2021
Brainspotting and Addictions - Dr. Roby Abeles, PsyD
Friday Jan 22, 2021
Friday Jan 22, 2021
Today we welcome international Brainspotting trainer and addiction specialist, Dr. Roby Abeles who practices in Sydney, Australia. Dr. Abeles gives us a brief overview of neuroscience, addiction, and Brainspotting and introduces us to her highly-effective version of Brainspotting called the Crocodile set-up. Learn more about this cutting-edge approach to healing addictive, compulsive behaviors from one of the leaders in the field of Brainspotting.
Contact Dr. Abeles at www.brainspottingaustraliapacific.com.au
Friday Jan 08, 2021
Catch Your Breath (A 4-minute exercise) - Susskind
Friday Jan 08, 2021
Friday Jan 08, 2021
Today Andrew leads you in a short, mindful breathing exercise. Many relaxation exercises require five minutes, ten minutes, or even more, but here he invites you to take just a few minutes to observe your breath with curiosity and non-judgment. Find a comfortable space and give yourself a chance to catch your breath.
Friday Dec 11, 2020
DBT and Recovery - Elle Michel, LMFT
Friday Dec 11, 2020
Friday Dec 11, 2020
In this podcast, we welcome psychotherapist and DBT specialist, Elle Michel, LMFT to discuss how Dialectical Behavior Therapy helps clients heal from trauma and addiction. She shares about the clinical applications of DBT and expands on specific skills such as emotional regulation, distress tolerance, mindfulness, and interpersonal effectiveness.
Friday Nov 27, 2020
Home for the Holidays - Susskind and Merlino
Friday Nov 27, 2020
Friday Nov 27, 2020
It’s that time of year again, and this is going to be a holiday season unlike any other. With a new wave of Covid crossing our country, travel is questionable, and being “home for the holidays” takes on a whole different meaning. In this podcast, we discuss ways to navigate the holiday season and strengthen recovery through mindfulness, creative connection, and healthier boundaries.
Friday Nov 13, 2020
Sexual Boundaries for Professionals - Dr. Tracy Zemansky, Ph.D, CSAT-S
Friday Nov 13, 2020
Friday Nov 13, 2020
Andrew interviews psychologist and certified sex addiction therapist/supervisor, Dr. Tracy Zemansky who specializes in treating professionals struggling with boundary crossings, boundary violations, and sexual misconduct. Through customized group therapy, she provides support to doctors, lawyers, pilots as well as other professionals toward healing problematic sexual behaviors and preventing further difficulties. Dr. Zemansky is one of the few therapists in California offering this essential form of treatment.
For more information, visit Dr. Zemansky’s website: www.drtracyzemansky.com
Friday Oct 30, 2020
Obsession and Love Addiction Revisited - Susskind and Merlino
Friday Oct 30, 2020
Friday Oct 30, 2020
Susskind and Merlino take on the often-misunderstood topic of obsession in today’s podcast. In this episode we look at obsession as a universal part of being human and a chance to learn about oneself and one’s mind. Because love addiction and fantasy often result in obsession, this podcast offers a larger perspective on the road to healing. Susskind presents specific strategies to move beyond obsession and healing from your original longings.
Friday Oct 16, 2020
Inner Child Recovery Process - Eddie Capparucci, LPC
Friday Oct 16, 2020
Friday Oct 16, 2020
In this podcast, we welcome Eddie Capparucci, LPC, C-CSAS, CPCS, creator of the Inner Child Recovery Process for the treatment of sex and porn addiction. This method uncovers the root issues of sex addiction and provides clients with tools and insight to manage their behaviors. He is the author of Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction.
Contact Eddie Capparucci at edcappa@gmail.com or www.innerchild-sexaddiction.com